FREE SELF-ASSESSMENT

The Empty Nest Marriage Connection Scorecard

A five-minute check-in for the next chapter of your marriage.

This is not a test, and there is no passing score. It is a simple way to see where your marriage already feels close, and where you might want a little more, now that the house has quieted down.

You will score five areas: meaningful conversation, physical affection, fun and playfulness, shared goals, and feeling appreciated. Takes about five minutes. Nobody sees your answers but you.

  • 25 quick self-ratings
  • A score for each of 5 areas
  • One small first action per area

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WHY WE BUILT THIS

A map, not a verdict.

Wherever you land, your score is not a diagnosis. It is a starting point. A low score in one area does not mean your whole marriage is struggling, and a high total does not mean there is nothing left to build. Every score comes with a next step, because every marriage, at every stage, has one.

Once you have your results, you will also hear from us with a short series of emails: what your score means, a common pattern couples notice at this stage, one conversation exercise to try together, and how our full toolkit, Us Again: The Empty Nest Marriage Reset, can help you build on what you find.